How to Get a Guy to Text You First

So you’re really interested in a guy but somehow he doesn’t reciprocate your feelings. Or may be you don’t want to let him know you like him and want him to make the first move instead. Whatever the case may be, it’s always best to let the guy approach or try to talk to you first, or you might end up appearing desperate.

So how do you get a guy to text you first? Well guys are usually predictable in the sense that when you expect them to do something, they usually end up doing the exact opposite. Which means if you expect the guy to text you first, he probably won’t text you and on the other hand, he’ll be waiting for your sms instead.

But the real answer to making a guy text you first is by arousing his curiosity. Once the guy knows you are interested in him, he’ll want to show off and make it difficult for you to get him. Make him feel you aren’t interested in him at all and have no interest in whatever he says or does. This will naturally make the guy insecure and he’ll want to get in touch with you as soon as possible. Now you have to make it hard for him to get you. So don’t pick up his call or answer the phone immediately. Make him desperate to talk to you and slightly ignore him when you see him anywhere, in the school, college, community center, supermarket or any other place. Not only will he text you but probably text you a lot :)

If you don’t like the above method or you don’t want to appear rude, you can simply drop hints like leaving your number on the desk or passing a brief smile once in a while. He’ll naturally want to get in touch with you so you won’t have to do anything extra.

If you want to learn some more tricks do check out this awesome video.


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