Are you one of those girls that has a shy introvert personality and doesn’t speak much. Or may be you are open to only a few close friends and fairly reserved with the others. In a world dominated by extrovert people who make a mockery of other’s emotions, being an introvert does not necessarily mean no one will like you.
In fact due to boldness and debauchery in most girls these days, guys have a pretty torrid time handling such types of girls. That is the exact reason why guys seem to love girls who speak less, and not babble throughout the day. These types of girls tend to do very well with guys, and especially when it comes to maintaining relationships, there is no doubt shy girls are right up to the mark. Shy girls have many qualities that attract great guys towards them. So don’t think about changing yourself only to catch the attention of guys.
Most of the guys do not like girls that are too outspoken or blunt, so to speak. They also tend to get intimated by the social life of such girls, be it their overly large friend circle or their excessive love for show-off. Girls that have a few close friends and are generally termed as shy tend to attract guys by their innate qualities. Also guys perceive such girls as easier to handle and take care of, as compared to the extrovert ones. They somehow get the feeling that managing such a girl would be much easier, since he won’t have to unnecessarily interact with tons of friends and acquaintances.
Shy girls actually pose a challenge for the guys, for they don’t express their feelings outright, and hence the guy gets eager to get to know her and her feelings in more detail, so as to fully understand the girl. Doing so generally leads to him getting attracted to the girl in a short while, and it isn’t too long before he starts craving for the same girl.
The other reason why guys like to go for shy girls is because they somehow appear to be calm, compassionate and caring, qualities which every guy likes to see in his girlfriend. Also, guys feel that dominating such girls in a relationship would be much easier than trying to dominate an extrovert and aggressive girl, since she won’t pay heed to his requests or wishes, and hence he would only be reduced to a mere puppet.
So if you are a shy girl, don’t worry. There are plenty of guys out there who are specifically looking for a girl like you. It won’t be long before you meet the right guy for you.